#3 - NSA (No Strings Attached)

This couldn't be further from the truth. DL Men love NSA anything with men. You know why? We love this because we can always cut the strings. It's simple. DL men can and probably will never be able to combine being DL as well and handle anything that requires attachment. Here's the top two reasons why (there are more...but for this illustration, two will suffice):

1st Reason:
DL men more than likely are already involved. We're mixed in relationships. We're mixed in marriages. We're mixed in situations with women. More than likely, it's extensive too. You never really run into a DL man who doesn't have some type of situation already going on. For that reason alone - we have to do what we can do best, and that's get our freak on with other men without anyone finding out. How can this happen successfully? We cut strings! Women won't experience terse and curt behavior from us. But men, after we've had our fill, it's out the door and we don't give a damn about how you feel. Remember, in the end, it's really about how we feel. And when we need to cut it - we do.

2nd Reason:
Not only are DL men mixed into relationships, but we've got an image to uphold. Our image is everything. How others perceive us is what makes us thrive and live and be. If others have the slightest suspicions about our behavior, we do something to knock that idea or possibility out of the door. For this reason alone, NSA works to our advantage. How easy is it to get what you need, when you need, with no attachments? When you know how to work the game and ensure that no one knows what's happening, we become secure and can essentially move about with ease. Remembers, it's about an image - and we can't have strings dangling bringing about our past experiences. For that reason alone, it's NSA all the way.

You see, we love saying what we need to and doing what we need to in order to get what we need to get. But in the end, reality sets in and it's impossible for us to live life giving our all to two people. We have to prioritize and some things are more important than others. In the grand scheme of things, we've only got so much to give. So, we have to make sure that we only attach what we need to. In many cases, especially when it comes to freaking other men, chances are, it will always end with NSA.

-TJ